I have been thinking a lot about fear lately. I have recently been preaching a message from 2 Timothy 1 where Paul calls Timothy to tell and live the Gospel boldly without fear. Plus, the issue of fear in my own heart and in the hearts of people around me has come to my attention a lot lately. I think, if you were honest, you would agree that fear is so prevalent in our daily lives. Have you ever stopped to realize how often you see fear demonstrated in your life and in the lives of others? Lately, I have taken note, and it’s a lot!
Here’s a smattering of what runs through my brain when I think about fear:
- fear to speak the Gospel
- fear someone will harm my children
- fear of financial crises
- fear of sickness, injury, and death either in me or someone in my family
- fear of God
- fear of looking bad/incapable in others’ eyes
- fear of what a pastor or fellow missionary thinks of me
- fear of messing up as a parent
- fear of terrorism
- fear of failure
- fear of rejection
- fear of embarrassment/humiliation
There is a time to fear and a time not to fear. Fear brings pain and profit. Fear paralyzes, hinders, and plagues us; yet we also seem not to want (or are unwilling) to rid ourselves of it. So, as a Christian, this emotion called “fear” has important significance to me.
According to the Oxford American Dictionary, fear is “an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.” I emphasize “belief.” I am beginning to realize that this is what it all comes down to. What do you believe? In fact, you could say the opposite of fear is faith. Faith is the “conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1). This is where going through life without fear is so difficult. To rid ourselves of fear, we need to believe. We need to believe in what we can’t see – God and the fulfillment of the promises He makes to those who are His (Hebrews 11:6). Yet, before we consider more the antidote to fear, let’s consider two sides to fear in our lives.
1. When we should not fear and do
Most of the examples mentioned above would fall into this category. These are negative expressions of fear. There are those fears that relate to the physical realm – fear of physical harm, injury, illness, even death. In fact, have you ever noticed how much American economics depends on fear. This is why I say that it seems we are unwilling to rid ourselves of fear. If Christians would forsake fear and simply trust, how would this change the American commercial world? Don’t get me wrong. I realize we can’t be ignorant and act like we’re invincible. Some choices would hinder us and our effectiveness for Christ (choosing not to buy health insurance, not protecting ourselves from harmful germs, etc.). However, perhaps we need to rethink what is common sense and what is simply a demonstration of ungrounded, faithless fear.
So, there is fear in the physical/material realm. But what about fear in the social/relational realm? I’m talking about what the Bible calls the fear of man. I mentioned several fears above that would fit in this category like speaking the Gospel, rejection, appearing incapable in another’s eyes, embarrassment, etc. This is probably a more prevalent fear in my heart than fear of physical harm or the like. This is also where our previous definition from the dictionary is not adequate. It would be more accurate to say fear is “an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is physically or socially dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.” However, whether it is relational fear or physical fear, it’s still fear and demonstrates a lack of faith.
2. When we should fear and don’t
Perhaps you caught the one example of fear I listed above that stood alone. It is the fear of God. The fear of God is one of the most predominant themes of the Scriptures, especially the OT. So, we shouldn’t rid ourselves of this emotion completely. It just needs correcting.
How the knowledge of God corrects our fearing
Our perspective on this present world should be shaped by our knowledge of the One who made it and is working out a plan in it. Our sovereign God “works all things after the counsel of His will.” So, even things we see as “problems” lead us perfectly to the course God intends and superintends. Not only should the knowledge of God’s sovereignty shape our thinking, but also understanding the many other characteristics of God and His promises. In many of the “fear not’s” of Scripture, the command was followed by a reminder of the promises of God. God’s “fear not” to Abraham was followed by “I am your shield, your very great reward” (Gen 15:1). To Isaac, God said, “I am the God of your father Abraham; do not fear, for I am with you. I will bless you, and multiply your descendants, for the sake of My servant Abraham.” The reasons Isaac should not fear were the truths of God’s presence in his life and the faithfulness of God to fulfill His covenant. Another “fear not” (my wife’s favorite) goes, “Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom” (Luke 12:32). Again, God’s people are called to look to their God and His pleasure (and unshaking plan) to do what He promises.
Christ’s words directly address the reality of threats we face in our lives on earth. “Do not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell” (Matthew 10:28). This leads us to the proper placement of our fear – God Himself. Fear and knowledge of God go hand in hand. As Proverbs 1:7 tells us, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge.” God’s character demands our fear. And fear is not simply reverence, but actually fear. Why should we fear or be afraid of God? As Christ says, because He is “able to destroy both soul and body in hell.” Consider Proverbs 14:16, “A wise man fears and departs from evil, But a fool rages and is self-confident.” The wise person sees evil (in his own life or in others’) with a knowledge of God, namely that “He will by no means leave the guilty unpunished” (Exodus 34:7) and that “when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death” (James 1:15). Because of his knowledge of God and His Word, the wise man fears and avoids sin. The fool, on the other hand, imbibes carelessly in sin with great confidence. You put God into the picture and the object(s) of fear drastically change. The fool fears all sorts of physical and earthly threats, but not the eternal One. The wise man is not afraid of temporal harm, both physical and relational, because he knows, fears, and answers only to the Beginning and the Ending.
So, I challenge you to pay attention to what/who you are fearing. I know it has been revealing to me to consider this the past few weeks. I pray God will continue helping me to believe what I cannot see. I desire to stop fearing man and to start fearing God.